I am getting emails that are sent from a remote ip directly to my mail server and the spam is labeled as to me and from me. What setting in the server will stop this spammer from being able to send the mail to me using my address as the return address also. I assume sine it id a local account, it will allow the relay, but can't the server know not to allow someone claiming to have my address to send mail illegitimately to me. 83.240.137.83 was showing as an open relay at the time.
Any insight would be great. Thanks.
Here is a sample email
Received: from [83.240.137.83] ([83.240.137.83]) by mail.instaburst.com
with SMTP (Code-Crafters Ability Mail Server 2.61);
Mon, 10 Nov 2008 06:14:26 -0600
To: <th@hypewifi.com>
Subject: Your private life compromised
From: <th@hypewifi.com>
MIME-Version: 1.0
Importance: High
Content-Type: text/html
<!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD HTML 4.01 Transitional//EN">
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<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1">
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