As long as you have SMTP authentication enabled and no SMTP relaying safe IPs (same page in settings as SMTP authentication - SMTP relaying tab), then only proper users with a username / password can relay mail to external email addresses not hosted on your Ability Mail Server. However, anyone can (and should be able to) send emails to your local addresses and that's where SPAM / content / antivirus filtering comes in to try and block most of the unwanted mails. You can also check your SMTP logs for any suspicious activity that may show abusive SPAM-ing (possibly from a real user of your system with a username / password).
If you send you mail server domain to
chris@code-crafters.com I'll check that your mail server has SMTP authentication properly enabled and isn't therefore an open relay.