Good news is you're not an open relay. Once we found the MX record for your server we used telnet to test with the following:
220 yourdomain.com ESMTP (Code-Crafters Ability Mail Server 2.53)
helo mail.codecrafters.com
250 yourdomain.com
mail from: <>
250 Email address accepted. <>
rcpt to:
info@codecrafters.com550 Account is not local, relaying disallowed. <info@codecrafters.com>
The "550 Account is not local, relaying disallowed." shows that SMTP authentication is preventing unauthorised relaying.
As for the block list you're on you'd have to contact them and ask to be removed. They might be able to give you more information why your IP was blocked. X-Headers should be totally fine though. It's possibly the content or quantity of emails sent got your IP blocked. You can limit the Max Mails Per Day per IP in SMTP settings and per user in the group settings to prevent any of your users bulk sending.
We noticed you’re running 2.53. We would recommend upgrading ideally to version 4 (new license required via
http://www.codecrafters.com/AbilityMailServer/BuyNow) or at least to 2.72 which is a free upgrade.